To be liked, or not to be liked...

How important is it to be liked, or accepted? I think all humans have the desire to fit in; however, is it worth the time and effort to get there?
Humans want to be in groups or tribes. It has been this way since the beginning of man. Individuals need a group of people to rely on for support and guidance. Unfortunately, in today's society, the "Alpha Male" groups are either the "Jocks" or "Athletes." Although there is nothing wrong with being in one of these groups, they are selective and not usually worth the time trying to get into. There are many social groups other than the two I have mentioned, but those are the two that most people try to join.
I have never "belonged" to a group. I have found lingering to be the best way to make friends. After a time, I became unsatisfied with not fitting in. That is why I try to meet other "lingerers." These people you may move along with and engage in conversation pertaining to all walks of society.
I apologize for the jumbled thoughts, but I would like to mention one VERY IMPORTANT thing: learn a little about everything. Become a renaissance man (or woman). By knowing a little about anything, you can have a conversation about anything. It's a great step to finding yourself as well.
Anyways, just some food for thought. I hope you guys take the time to think about it.